I celebrated a birthday this week!
Yep- one year older! While some people dread getting older, admittedly I’m becoming OK with it. I think that our society puts a lot of pressure on age and youth and almost see getting older as fragile and negative. While there are other countries that honor the ages, we try to preserve our youth and looks as much as possible. I am simply grateful to SEE another day. To LIVE another year with my husband, my family and enjoy LIFE. As I turn another page in my book, I thought about the advice I would give to my younger self and reflected back on different stages. Here are the 34 pieces of Advice for my younger self. Maybe some of you can relate!
34 Pieces of Advice For my Younger Self
Don’t sweat the small stuff
Cherish moments with loved ones
Who cares of what other people think of you
People are going to say no or reject you & it’s ok
“Failures” are a learning experience
Mom is right
You WILL overcome life toughest challenges (you are resilient)
Listen to your instincts
Love your siblings no matter what- they ARE your family and support system
True friends are there for you no matter what
True friends do not judge you but support you
Long term friendship takes work from both parties
If there is something you will keep from Your mom, then don’t do it.
Do not waste your time on someone who is not willing to put in time for you.
Remember that everyone’s job is important. You are not above anyone else.
“Kill them with kindness” - works!
Don’t wait to make things happen for you- take action
Include activities that keep you in the present
If you’re not growing or learning, don’t be afraid to leave (work or relationships)
Develop friendships beyond your work environment
Stay humble
Give & expect to get nothing in return
People will have different opinions, learn to be ok with it and them
Don’t stress over not having your career path figured out (or life)
It’s ok to start over
Believe in yourself & follow your talents
Self-awareness is a great thing to have
Every life experience, good or bad, is not wasted
Trust yourself, trust in timing
What you do, or who your become AFTER high school, is more important than who you were and what you did while in h.s.
Seek opportunities even if it’s outside your comfort zone
Take risks (as an opportunity or challenge)
Don’t compare yourself to others
And YES, you ARE beautiful 💓
What other pieces of advice would you give your younger self that are NOT on this list? Let me know below!
